Yes, I take it as friends with benefits (-: He told me that the problem with us, is that I don't really love him and he deserves to be with someone that loves him for him. Then he went on to say, she is having the same problem. Her H doesn't want a D either, and she feels he doesn't really love her either. All of that to me is one big copout. This is all part of their plan, to try to get together.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10