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Re: Oh well here I am, could be worse... volleydog #1921928 01/22/10 04:24 PM
Joined: Dec 2008 Posts: 691 IN V volleydog OP Member
OP volleydog Member V Joined: Dec 2008 Posts: 691 IN	Wow I'm pi$$ed...Just found out that ex gave my S9 new email address to her boyfriend and as far as I know she hasn't introduced him to the kids...wtf why would he need my S email address and does that mean she intro them wo/telling me...We both agreed to let the other know if/when we were going to intro the kids...damn Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009 "We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."

Re: Oh well here I am, could be worse... volleydog #1922589 01/23/10 06:52 PM
Joined: Mar 2009 Posts: 3,041 A antlers Member
antlers Member A Joined: Mar 2009 Posts: 3,041	Originally Posted By: volleydog Pretending it ain't $hit makes you an idiot, not an optimist." I agree. Denying the reality of a situation doesn't make it any less of a reality. "Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.

Re: Oh well here I am, could be worse... volleydog #1922592 01/23/10 06:54 PM
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antlers Member A Joined: Mar 2009 Posts: 3,041	Originally Posted By: volleydog Wow I'm pi$$ed...Just found out that ex gave my S9 new email address to her boyfriend and as far as I know she hasn't introduced him to the kids...wtf why would he need my S email address and does that mean she intro them wo/telling me...We both agreed to let the other know if/when we were going to intro the kids...damn I'm finding out the hard way that 'agreements' we had mean about as much to a WAS as everything else they left and walked away from. "Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.

Re: Oh well here I am, could be worse... antlers #1922612 01/23/10 07:16 PM
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Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	antlers, Originally Posted By: antlers [I'm finding out the hard way that 'agreements' we had mean about as much to a WAS as everything else they left and walked away from. Bingo. My STBXW is on broken agreement #27 and counting. Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

Re: Oh well here I am, could be worse... Gardener #1924052 01/26/10 03:22 PM
Joined: Apr 2009 Posts: 827 Massachusetts I iwantittowork Member
iwantittowork Member I Joined: Apr 2009 Posts: 827 Massachusetts	How's it going lately Dog? Been a couple days, hope all is well! M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09 On board the D train now.. "Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."

Re: Oh well here I am, could be worse... iwantittowork #1924079 01/26/10 03:46 PM
Joined: Dec 2008 Posts: 691 IN V volleydog OP Member
OP volleydog Member V Joined: Dec 2008 Posts: 691 IN	I'm good had a HUGE fight last night with EX about communication...I'm getting tired of everyone in her life knowing more about what's going on with our kids than I do...Not sure if it will ever change. Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009 "We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."

Re: Oh well here I am, could be worse... volleydog #1924117 01/26/10 04:20 PM
Joined: Apr 2009 Posts: 827 Massachusetts I iwantittowork Member
iwantittowork Member I Joined: Apr 2009 Posts: 827 Massachusetts	Sorry you got in a fight man, hope all is smoothed over now. I think the only way to find out what is going on with your kids is to take charge of that, and find out. Talk to them, talk their teachers, talk to there friends, etc. You can't change what she does, only what you do, and what you own... M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09 On board the D train now.. "Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."

Re: Oh well here I am, could be worse... iwantittowork #1925518 01/28/10 02:20 PM
Joined: Dec 2008 Posts: 691 IN V volleydog OP Member
OP volleydog Member V Joined: Dec 2008 Posts: 691 IN	ex's bday tomorrow, no I'm not getting her anything...BUT...It is the nice thing to do to take the kids shopping to get their Mom something, part of me feels it's not my responsibility, but I guess I'm going to. Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009 "We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."

Re: Oh well here I am, could be worse... volleydog #1925527 01/28/10 02:40 PM
Joined: Mar 2009 Posts: 3,041 A antlers Member
antlers Member A Joined: Mar 2009 Posts: 3,041	Get yourself something while you're at it. You deserve it. "Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.

Re: Oh well here I am, could be worse... antlers #1926335 01/29/10 03:32 PM
Joined: Dec 2008 Posts: 691 IN V volleydog OP Member
OP volleydog Member V Joined: Dec 2008 Posts: 691 IN	Not sure why but feeling a little down today, ex's bday, first one I haven't spent with her. Must not be as detached as I thought. Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009 "We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."

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