Seen H last night for a few minutes, his night with kids. No R or D talk, I just kept busy. I got the sense he wanted to talk to me, but I never gave him the opportunity. Going dark is very hard.

I forgot to mention that the night before; he did say to me "She is the only friend I have that I can talk to about us because she is going through the same thing". Of course I didn't reply, and then he said, "She is worried about her job and kids, so I guess we can't be friends anymore". That makes me wonder if the exposure scared her off.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10