Seen H last night for a few minutes, his night with kids. No R or D talk, I just kept busy. I got the sense he wanted to talk to me, but I never gave him the opportunity. Going dark is very hard.
I forgot to mention that the night before; he did say to me "She is the only friend I have that I can talk to about us because she is going through the same thing". Of course I didn't reply, and then he said, "She is worried about her job and kids, so I guess we can't be friends anymore". That makes me wonder if the exposure scared her off.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10