Well, we've made it through (at least according to the doctor) and we are going back to something that looks like our life previous to surgery, now that the doctor has given her permission to get up and about (and to drive, though that will really start next week).

The days of working at home will also be greatly reduced (working from my "man cave").

I would be surprised if there is anything special out of this. So far that has consisted of a cup of coffee explicitly purchased for all I've done.

I have no expectations on this because I have 17 years of married history to use as the reference case.

Last sex: 04/06/1997
Last attempt: 11/11/1997
W Issues "No Means No" Declaration: 11/11/1997
W chooses to terminate sex 05/1998
I gained 60, then lost 85 pounds.
Start running again (marathons)