dating and separation?

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[quote=trytryagain]in all honesty, if he wanted to date, i probably would do it, too, just so i didn't feel left behind.

I mean do it up right too. Even if it's drinks or movies with the girls, put on something that will knock his socks off, maybe even something new, smell good and work it all the way out the door. Turn his head, walk out, have fun and DO NOT CALL HIM OR TAKE CALLS FROM HIM while you are out.If you can spend the night in a hotel.

thanks for the input...the thing is, my H is moving out this weekend. he won't be far, but he will be on the other side of town, so me getting dressed up and looking my best to head out the door will only be seen by the dog. i know it'll make ME feel better, but he won't see any of it...