My H MLC has eaten up the memoroy in MY brain! The stress, anxiety, worry and "what if's" just hog up your memory card.
I can easily see where this happens on both sides of marriage issues, let alone MI with a MLC.
Sometimes I can't talk like I used to. I search for words and my mind brings up....not much. sigh I used to talk like a chatty cathy, but now I hardly speak.