Karen~ All I meant was maybe if NC was comfortable with the doorway that would be the line. Actually My Mailman does stand in my doorway..

But NC we can debate all we like, it is was you want, and what you are willing to allow. I personally would be ok with the doorway, like goldey said, healthy boundaries are good.

I know how crazy you exw is, ive been with you since this started, so whatever you decide im with you.

But I do think she needs to be told that your inside your home is off limits, ESPECIALLY your bedroom....

Peace

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.