h's bday is in april and it would not be that long to wait till then to serve him.

he's so against providing a schedule #1 because i asked for it, more rebellion, you woman not gonna tell me what to do. #2 he doesn't want to be locked into days and times to see d2.

even though the court is going to ask him for his parenting plan with visitation times, etc. he usual says here jstar you write it up and then i'll see if i go for it.

be darned if i will do anything to help him move along. he needs to be a grown man, if it's not his mommie cooking him food when he orders or her doing his laundry he wants me to fill out everything he is responsible to do.


ive just been so exhausted this past week week and 1/2, with aches and pains working, dr visits, i'm worn out. i'm not going to push to have him served in a few weeks, to much running around.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline