Thanks Kalni for that insight will see if I can read that book, soothing does seem to over ride our panic about how we feel about things, perhaps some of us are too over sensitive to feelings and need to get them more in perspective and know that not all things that are said by spouses are being aimed critically at us!

Rocked good to hear things are going well, (()) for all the hard work, Im with you on that!


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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!