He is supposedly signing the lease tomorrow and moving next weekend-in 8 days and he HASN'T PACKED A SINGLE BOX.
H didn't even have a rental agreement until the day he moved out. The day he moved out he packed some things in the space of about 2 hours and that was it. In the 25 days since then, he has been removing his stuff, box by box. And asking for furniture, piece by piece. I wouldn't read anything into how he handles the logistics of this. It's easier if you assume that he will do what he says he's going to do. And don't make the mistake that I did of doing any pursuing before he moves out.
I wish you strength.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
