I just want to add that it's very encouraging to read that things are on the mend in your M. It sounds like you really did a lot of work on yourself and your M.
I hope that your little one is feeling better.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.