Thanks OP. I think I may keep my FB life a bit separate from here for now since my H is extremely reactive.
Its amazing how reactive/sensitive H is. I made a benign comment to him-"my password got changed on plaxo(we're usng it to communicate kids schedules and such) and I couldn't change it back to the "joint" password"...so I emailed him the new password.
He responded with "I can assure you I have not changed the password.."
Not sure if the reactivity is a sign of his discomfort and/or unhappiness with his decisions and current place in life..or what. Really hoping off of this anger/projection/sensitivity will end soon.
D12 had a meltdown tonight..just dealing with teen anger.."I hate you" emoting is hard right now. I think I could handle it better if I wasn't already down a bit and struggling myself.
D12 said I have 9 more years of puberty to deal with because she's going to give me two extra years because she's mad at me! Had to chuckle inside at that one!
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.