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For me, I always felt like my husband sided with his Mom against me. That she could treat me as bad as she liked and he'd ignore it.

I longed for my husband to stand up to her and say, "This is my wife. She is the love of my life and you will treat her with respect and curtesy."

Perhaps its less that he feels slighted by them, but more like he wants you to stand up for him, and yet feels he can't ask that of you?

Does this make any sense?



It makes a lot of sense PiB. I would stand up for him, and I have stood up for him but he is not there to see it. I told my bro and sis that I ahd decided to take him back and try to rebuild our R. But now he has disappeared...

And thanks CHL. I'll answer to your post but I need some time to think it over


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