Your spiteful nature will be there after the birth too. Does he have a birthday coming up?
In Alaska if you can prove that you have been living seperately for two years you dont have to have his consent to the divorce. I know that its a long time, but if he is going to dodge the servers, then you dont need his approval.
Im a little confused about why he is so against setting up a schedule, it doesnt seem like it would be that difficult of a thing to justify, or to see the merit of!
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...