Wii -You've been away for a while. It is interesting to see you working on feeling it. I was wondering how you were managing all that contact. But I also understand that some people can do. I know that I can't.
And about looking around at all the "intact" families - why do you think that some of them back off a little when we are hurting? They are afraid, too. But you can't live a life that way.
Be grateful for what you have, but not afraid that you can loose it at any moment.