I can't imagine my wife leaving my children too.She didn't want much to do with them for a while but that for me never happened. We have 50/50 custody.
I'll be the first to admit that for quite a while I had sort of an edge or a chip on my shoulder when I dealt with my ex. I just still see a lot of that in other people. (and I'm not saying I do in you) it just seems to be pretty common.
I don't know what happened in me but I guess I finally just let it all go. I saw that life was still great and I'm alright with not being together. I try my best to treat her nicely. I feel a lot better about it too. I don't really expect anything from it, it's just better this way I guess.
The past three weeks have been interesting. She has been calling pretty much daily. I don't take all of the calls but some. Kind of funny. I still have to keep some boundaries and yes there is still things that leave me shaking my head but she has improved a ton. Slowly, but she's getting better in ways.
Anyway, I was just curious...I don't really know that much about what happened to you. I just know for me it was a struggle for a while but once I reach a place where it didn't matter any more it was like a huge weight was lifted.
