Running out of time.

[Cie la vie]

Mhl,

Hope you get well soon. I went through a protacted sick phase (6-8 weeks, cold morphing into new crap etc.)that I have gradually come out of over the last few weeks. I chalk it up to stress and obviously the season. Never was really sick as a dog though, thank goodness.

Did you have to call her back today? Was there something that she asked you in her message that you had to reply to?

Good question and it wasn't one I asked myself and probably should have and will moving forward. When I called her back I got a more thorough account of the melt down but not much else. But the fact that it was a somewhat traumatic event for the kids I felt compelled to return the call.

She informed me that she would call me tomorrow a well with her new phone land line #. I definitely will not answer that call nor return it. My plan to go as dark as possible may take a little more time to solidify than I thought with the newness of the move out and the loose ends that need to be dealt with through communication.

This is definitely a sign of the MLCer that I have been reading about all day

I've been doing some research on MLC as well this week. I did a google search "a woman's midlife crisis". What I read convinces me more than ever that my W is definitely in the midst of a MLC. Let me know of any particularly good articles on the subject you have read, I somewhat limited on surfing as I can only do it from work at the moment.

Keep up the good fight!