I can't help but think your reaction is a selfish one. She got more money and it's not as risky as she thought. Good for her. But k4, you related her decision solely on how it makes YOU feel and worry about how it makes you look...it wasn't about you.
It's a job she took, not OM...just wondering why you wanted her to make less money...oh, I know b/c then she'd "need" you more...See I don't find that loving.
Get yourself a better job so you can feel better about yourself, instead of hoping she gets a lower paying job so you two are on a "level" playing field. Would you rather lift yourself up, or have her lower herself down to be "equal"? Truth be told, I fear it's the latter b/c you don't know how to lift yourself up. I wish for you to learn how to do that k4, I really do.
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