You are sexy, sassy, smart, beautiful, funny and full of joie de vivre. What's to fear? You are ab fab (absolutely fabulous).
Seriously, you can pick apart every single one of those fears and move forward to wherever you want to be. If your need for change is greater than your fear, you will seek change. I really admire how you have stabalized your sitch over the past year. You have come a long way, baby!
The best way to do away with fear is to stare it down,shine the light on it and pick it apart. And you have all of us to help you if you need us.
Oh, btw, next time you have leftovers for me, please label them so the boys don't get to them. And I am gald that your son is on the mend.
GEEZ... I don't look at your thread for a couple of days and I can barely catch up!!!!
Ditto to everything Kara said!
You are amazing and have been such an inspiration to me! I am hoping you can turn around the statements you made about where DBing has left you and find ways to move past those fears. I know you can!
I wanted to throw my opinion in here. You friended me in the alt today. As a matter of fact, I had the priviledge of connecting many faces to the threads I've been reading for many months. All very special people to me now.
You ARE attractive, intelligent, kind, fun. Believe it... and you're gonna be ok.
DB'ing has left me as a shell of a person I was. DB'ing has left me paralyzed in voice and action. DB'ing has assisted in stripping me of my self-confidence. DB'ing has assisted in stripping me of my self-love.
I DEFINITELY agree with VH... you are not DBing correctly if this is the result.
If FEAR is your enemy, which it sounds like it is, and you have faith in God, then you must restore that faith that he will lead you to a life that is wonderful. I fully believed that in my heart for myself. Believe that you will have a great future, no matter what happens. And I believe you will. God has plans to prosper you, not to harm you. He has plans that are perfect for you, they are not in align with what we always want, or understand, but he has the end result in his hand.
(((Mind)))
hey, on your boy, because you guys have been going to the naturopath, I would really suggest you go there. Asthma is caused by inflammation, and the drugs he is on, have side affects. That is why I love my juice, because it's anti-inflammatory and it's God's fruits...but talk to your naturopath, she/he will know what to use that will help cure the problem, not just fix the symptoms.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
