The dog and I spent last night alone. It wasn't half bad actually. I'll will need to find things to keep myself busier during my free nights moving forward. I plan on getting my brokers license over the coming months, something I should have done over the last few years.
The W called me on my cell phone today, this is maybe the third time she has put a call into me since early October. The purpose of the call was one that angers me. The kids spent the night with her for the first time at her new apartment and she took them to school and they melted down. The W was forced to bring them back to her apartment because they were inconsolable. I didn't get the call as I have been extremely busy at work and didn't hear the message until a few hours later. I calle her back and felt like say "what did you expect". I didn't of cousre but I had to listen to her as she spin doctored the whole episode as just one of those things.
I feel terrible for my little ones as they are as I have said before innocent victims to my W's MLC and associated selfishness. She'll continue to rationalize away any trauma or problems that affect the children to minimize her guilt and justify her decision. Nothing I can do about but it does piss me off. She has the kids tonight and tomorrow the nanny will shoulder the burden of dropping the kids off at school.
I'm sure my W will be to busy getting her hair done or spending more money she doesn't have, after all she has a big Friday and Saturday night schedule with OM2.
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)