Reconcilled's post is some of the soundest advice I've seen yet. Your sons need a family they can count on. You and your XW need stability in your relationship. If you're going to start building a new life with your family, there's no need to waste time. Best wishes,
Ron
M: 47 W: 50 D: 19 S: 16 Grandson: 21 months (now officially our son) Married: 10/2/89 Divorced: 7/31/09 XW moved back home 11/12 Re-married 5/25/10
