The advice I am looking for is how to move towards a reconciliation, not walk away and say she isn't worth it.
Kevin
What you don't understand is the advice you are receiving IS your best chance at reconcilation. As counter-intuitive as it seems to you.
Is this genuinely too complicated for you K4? This oversimplifying poop that you do, over and over again, is a big part of your problem. You need help k4. Help to change you. What is it that you don't "get" about this? What Drew said was SO on point and his scriptural references were spot on. You said nothing about that post. Let me ask you again, What is it, that you don't "get" that makes you think you must choose one extreme or the other? What is it, about advice for you to work on you, that frightens you so much? j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016