My W has bi-polar and was recently diagnosed (Nove 09). She completely destroyed her career and almost her family last year due to a manic phase. She went through a manic phase 10 years ago (before I met her) that caused a divorce for her and now knowing all the details and with a good Dr. it is much easier to see how it all happened.

Them realizing they have a problem and getting medicated are two things I don't think you can make happen. They have to realize it. Things are much better in my situation....for now

M 33, W 30, SD 10, D 5, S 4

Made it through the WAW, living happily together now. And I am much wiser for it!