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Re: Life
K4D #1925948 01/28/10 09:48 PM
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Very good. Now buck up and stop sulking. This is a good thing.
Re: Life
CityGirl #1925951 01/28/10 09:50 PM
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I hope you are right.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
Re: Life
CityGirl #1925952 01/28/10 09:50 PM
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Do not be afraid. The action you just took is for YOU and YOU only.

If your W asks about it be casual, reveal as little as possible and be very brief.

"Yes, W, I did remove several contacts from my IM"

If she asks why you can say "personal reasons"
Re: Life
CityGirl #1925954 01/28/10 09:51 PM
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You said it irritated you so why does it matter if I am right? Now you won't be irritated and certainly if your W needs to she can still reach you via another medium of communication.
Re: Life
CityGirl #1925957 01/28/10 09:52 PM
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True. She can still text, email, or call. I don't have to view her constantly changing status anymore.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
Re: Life
K4D #1925958 01/28/10 09:54 PM
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Exactly! You are still reachable by all means yet you have removed something that you don't need to see. It is a win win for YOU.
Re: Life
K4D #1925960 01/28/10 09:55 PM
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Originally Posted By: K4D
True. She can still text, email, or call. I don't have to view her constantly changing status anymore.

Kevin

And the earth is still spinning on its axis, you know what didn't freeze over, etc.....

Good job, Kevin

Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
Re: Life
Drew #1925961 01/28/10 09:56 PM
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A journey of a thousand miles begins with just one step.

Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
Re: Life
Drew #1925964 01/28/10 09:57 PM
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Its raining here outside.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
Re: Life
K4D #1925967 01/28/10 09:59 PM
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It's sunny in Vegas. smile

Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
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