I agree. I take into account what W might think. So how do I do it differently? I just do it and not worry about how she might take it?

So the basic thought is detach first, then reconcile later. Correct?

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...