I could not find any current court cases for the OW or her H.
Exposing is useful but it should not be the only thing you are concerned with right now.
GET YOUR DUCKS IN ORDER! BE PREPARED! HAVE A PLAN AND SCRIPT TO RECITE EACH TIME YOU TALK WITH HIM FROM HERE ON OUT!
Not until your husband has to face reality and it scares him $hitle$$ is he going to wake up to facts that he needs to clean up his act and work seriously on himself and his marriage. On the flip side, realize, if you welcome him back in the house willingly without changes in his behavior and attitude towards you thinking the solution is just to be at home where you can keep an eye on him, You will most likely end up like the girl with the hockey husband or worse he will cheat again. This cannot be swept under the rug in hopes your marriage will "just" survive.
Understand, he is going to try and control you and the situation to mimize it and its outcome. Esp. financially if this proceeds to a court divorce. It is best you know what to say beforehand, say nothing else and if he keeps saying divorce then tell him maybe its better if all of this is discussed by our attorneys from here on out.
Listen to all of ^ this!!! My husband has admitted to two affairs going on at the same time and I am just to the point of not playing the nice act and getting my ducks in a row. The funny thing is that my husband has been talking about getting his own place, own account, divorcing for at least the past 6 months so I ASSUMED that he had been getting his ducks in a row and had a plan. As soon as I BEGAN to make moves to (1) divorce (scheduled mediation appt) (2) end our lease (wrote letter to aparmtnet to move out within 60 days based on husband constantly threatening that he would be having his own apartment on April 1st and (3) open my own bank account and separate our finances, husband has STOPPED all divorce and separation talk. He now realizes that his chit isn't in order adn that he does not have the money to divorce, pay child support, rent an apartment, and live the single/bachelor life that he has envisioned. Oh well for him, i guess his fairy tale or fantasy isn't what he thought it was going to be.
Mb28, your husband will also realize this. Be strong and listen.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo
