Because you spend weeks thinking things out then nothing happens. Then when we ask about the change you probably should be making in the name of mental health and detachment you find somebody to agree with you that has a totally different situation and say "well, I thought about it but I decided not to because XXXXXX said so".
If you want to model yourself after detached people then you must first become detached yourself.
Decision making is not your strong suit. Yet you continue to approach making decisions in the same way... the thinking and the speculating of how another might perceive your decision for your own well being and the cycle continues.
At the very least, what would be a new way to approach decision making other than the "thinking about it and using the same bullet points" you always do?
