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K4D #1925865 01/28/10 08:47 PM
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Are you able login and read her emails?


No. And I don't try to. I don't want to know what is going on in her personal life. It actually irritates me to see her status to be honest. I don't want to know at all what is going on with her unless it has something to do with us.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
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K4D #1925869 01/28/10 08:48 PM
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I should have added, that doesn't make you a stalker, but do you see why he posted that?


Yes, I see.

Kevin


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1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
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K4D #1925871 01/28/10 08:49 PM
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No. And I don't try to. I don't want to know what is going on in her personal life. It actually irritates me to see her status to be honest. I don't want to know at all what is going on with her unless it has something to do with us.

Kevin

Then prove it. Take her off your list for one week. Bet you can't do it.


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Take her off that list for one week.

Bet you can't do it.


Is this like the bet you can't eat just one? lol. I bet I can as I have in the past, but then I put her back on at later points. I guess I didn't want her thinking I was just trying to oust her.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
K4D #1925874 01/28/10 08:51 PM
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So Goal 1, remove W from IM for a week? Hmm... further distance = no reconciliation according to what CG said. But then being on IM isn't doing anything either. I guess there is no harm in it.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
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Take her off that list for one week.

Bet you can't do it.


Is this like the bet you can't eat just one? lol. I bet I can as I have in the past, but then I put her back on at later points. I guess I didn't want her thinking I was just trying to oust her.

Kevin


Haven't you just taken her off when she's taken you off and then added her back when she adds you back?


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T: 17 years
M: 15 years
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There you go again confusing distance with detaching .....


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Bet #2: I bet CG backs me up on this one.

CG?


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Drew and VD,

I can take her off. I just don't see what point it serves. But I can certainly do it.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
Drew #1925885 01/28/10 08:57 PM
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Cant you just configure the phone so you dont have the who's online list show when you open it?

Darn cell phones. Do you think the Texas Rangers could have cleaned up the bad guys if they were always texting each other on their horses?

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