So Goal 1, remove W from IM for a week? Hmm... further distance = no reconciliation according to what CG said. But then being on IM isn't doing anything either. I guess there is no harm in it.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...