No. And I don't try to. I don't want to know what is going on in her personal life. It actually irritates me to see her status to be honest. I don't want to know at all what is going on with her unless it has something to do with us.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I should have added, that doesn't make you a stalker, but do you see why he posted that?
Yes, I see.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
No. And I don't try to. I don't want to know what is going on in her personal life. It actually irritates me to see her status to be honest. I don't want to know at all what is going on with her unless it has something to do with us.
Kevin
Then prove it. Take her off your list for one week. Bet you can't do it.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
Is this like the bet you can't eat just one? lol. I bet I can as I have in the past, but then I put her back on at later points. I guess I didn't want her thinking I was just trying to oust her.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
So Goal 1, remove W from IM for a week? Hmm... further distance = no reconciliation according to what CG said. But then being on IM isn't doing anything either. I guess there is no harm in it.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Is this like the bet you can't eat just one? lol. I bet I can as I have in the past, but then I put her back on at later points. I guess I didn't want her thinking I was just trying to oust her.
Kevin
Haven't you just taken her off when she's taken you off and then added her back when she adds you back?
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
I can take her off. I just don't see what point it serves. But I can certainly do it.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...