It's the end of the world as we know it, & I feel-

[kat727]

When we were seperated he was over ALL the time. Just didn't sleep there so he could be faithful to his affair partner. Whatever. Once he filed he suggested the guidelines for our county. This meant he would get them one day a week and every other weekend. We used to do things together but not once he filed. There was no use pretending at that point. His parents though still wanted me to do all the family holidays, to me that would have been too painful.

I think know that you have filed would certainly be the time to put the parenting time in place and again, not at your house!

kat