When my phone opens up, it has a list of everyone that is online. She is usually in that list. I pick from that list who I am wanting to talk to and proceed. But yes, it is right there in front of me like my other friends are. I check through out the day a few times to see who all is online. Yes I do happen to notice her status since it is right there in front of me. I don't see how this makes me a stalker.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...