Because I have her on IM and she has me on IM I am a stalker? Seriously?
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Your W is not codependent. Self centered - yes. I believe that is #10 on my list I posted the other day.
My cousin's ex posts similar stuff that is all about her. Being that she is in Oregon, then that must mean that the earth revolves around an axis that passes through Texas and Oregon. Readjust your compasses people.
Because I have her on IM and she has me on IM I am a stalker? Seriously?
Nope...
It's your obsession with every thing your stbxw does, and not even just that, it's that plus your need to know 'why' she does something, and the 'how' and 'why' it affects you when she does.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
When my phone opens up, it has a list of everyone that is online. She is usually in that list. I pick from that list who I am wanting to talk to and proceed. But yes, it is right there in front of me like my other friends are. I check through out the day a few times to see who all is online. Yes I do happen to notice her status since it is right there in front of me. I don't see how this makes me a stalker.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
