Because I have her on IM and she has me on IM I am a stalker? Seriously?
Nope...
It's your obsession with every thing your stbxw does, and not even just that, it's that plus your need to know 'why' she does something, and the 'how' and 'why' it affects you when she does.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."