I am slowly detaching and its a huge process....but I promise you it is so worth it! You will feel so much better inside and out. I like what VD posted above. What a great list.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!