Is it me? Or is it really everyone else? lol.

[K4D]

I think my thing is that if she is already fine with being apart and separated, how does continuing to stay out of contact with her help anything? Yes, I understand about GALing. But the things I have mentioned in the past that I was doing seemed to have no affect on her. I just keep wondering if there is another way to go about this that might include a bit more conversation with her and pulling her back in.

But if I do or say anything, it is pursuing. I can't just go have a conversation or do anything with her without it being pursuing.

Kevin