Yes, you leave W alone, you are DISTANCED from her.
You are not *detached*
And before you come back and say I can't detach because it means I won't care and it means I have to turn my back on her stop and think about what detachment really means.
This is not about "leaving your W alone" or "not bothering her".
If you want to pave the way to a reconciliation neither of those "strategies" are going to work.
