Me setting boundaries with W GAL Be happy in my life no matter what current circumstances are Live life to the fullest Do for me and not for what W might think
These are things that you need to review every day to make sure you are following through. Print them out. Be consistent with them. You know what they are, but just dont put them in practice.
But I will add, #1 of all is to focus on the kids. That has always been the guiding force for me.