Scared and need advice

[avermont]

thanks, thanks, thanks.

I have consulted L. Fortunately have a cousin who is D L, so he is reviewing X's document.

I don't know if he has consulted a L. His document sounds very legalese, but that's easy enough to pick up on one's own.

Interesting point: his last point is that this is "all dependent on X getting approved for re-fi, loan, etc.,", but "I assume this won't be a problem."

Well, I have ALREADY spoken to the bank and I am pre-approved to re-fi in my own name. So I have that in my back pocket already.

Yes, he is pushing for a date simply because he has a 9 month lease. Too bad for him. The friends who sponsored the affair--you may have read how they permitted and supported the two of them to carry on under their roof--own short-term rental furnished apartments. Really quite nice. If I were actually to say or email anything to him every again, I would suggest he go move there--they are a happy foursome, after all!

No, he can't force me out. It just goes to court, which takes time and money. He has a bit more $. The court will award it to one of us, or to a third party. That's really the only option.

The incredible pain is that the sitch devolved so quickly. From A-Z without a step in between.

You had the same experience, too.

And to top it off--here on the porch is a big box of his diabetic supplies. The last box of diabetic supplies was small enough to drop in the UPS box, which I did with "not at this address, and forward to work address." Guess he didn't get the clue last time. This box is too big to put in the UPS slot.

a) be nice, let him know it is here, and when he can pick it up
b) go to the trouble of finding a UPS drop off point and dropping it off with "not at this address"
c) throw it away and hope he dies for lack of supplies?

And--I just unclogged that drain. Wasn't too disgusting!

I have got to get my head focused. I have work and community projects that I don't want to let down just because X is being a total jerk.

Really, really, really...nothing will happen for some months except some unpleasant emails and talks with lawyers. Breathe breathe breathe.

Please keep chiming in. You guys are my life line right now.