When you get mad you post something... and yes, I remember very clearly you saying your W wanted to keep the "good" furniture and leave you with the "old" furniture and you were none to happy about it. But now, well, now that isn't the case I guess.
And when somebody kicks you out of YOUR OWN HOME they sort of lose the right to "dictate" anything. But now it's much different than how you painted it before.
That is what is hard to understand. You are very upset when it happens but when we try and point out cycles of negative behavior you say "well, it wasn't *that* bad".