No you didn't. You changed birthday plans to suit her father's wishes. And you put the burden of choice on your eight-year-old daughter.
I didn't change birthday plans to suit her fathers wishes. I told W I would let D8 decide if she wants Joe's crabshack that night or if she wants to be with W's family. W didn't like that and told me I better not influence her decision. I asked D8 what she wanted to do. She thought about it and talked about it and said she would rather go hang with the family. I said ok and then we did that. But I was firm with W that if D8 wanted Joe's Crabshack, that was where we were going to go and they were welcomed to join.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
