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Lost - thanks again. I don't know what kicks off the I've had enough moments...I will look to see if I can figure that out, great point. I do know tiredness has always been a contributing factor and I am tired, but I've been worse. I also suspect that i will find it is her non-participation/interaction with the kids, but I need to see if that is really a cause or not.

Thanks for the kick in the tail in the lateness. I need to work on that. It started with me knowing she was late in the past because she was talking with OM. At this point, I don't think that is the case, but I don't know, but the thought doesn't cross my mind. So why I am still so hung up on it, I don't know. I guess it is that every day she tells me she is going to come home on-time and I never believe her (but keep that to myself) but for some reason want to believe her...guess I think it will be a sign of her snapping out of the fog. This one is silly.

I need to give her credit and find a way to re-inforce or recognize or thank her for her sticking to her word of going to bed earlier. That is at least something.