Also, if there is a change of plans with regard to my kids such as birthday events, etc, I let her know what the options will be if the kids are on my time. And that is what they are. She has no say so in it. So yes, I do set boundaries and put out there what I think when it involves the kids.
Kevin
No you didn't. You changed birthday plans to suit her father's wishes. And you put the burden of choice on your eight-year-old daughter.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
