Just curious what are they and how are they enforced, honest question, I haven't read about your boundaries and i think that is a big step.
I stand my ground when it involves my kids being pulled into stuff. Well, at least I let W know how I feel about it. There is nothing I can do to stop it. But she knows I don't agree with it. If I was such a coward, I wouldn't even do that.
Also, if there is a change of plans with regard to my kids such as birthday events, etc, I let her know what the options will be if the kids are on my time. And that is what they are. She has no say so in it. So yes, I do set boundaries and put out there what I think when it involves the kids.
Maybe for myself I am not the best at it. But I am not bad when it comes to my kids.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...