Hi Nik, Her post is called Donna new outlook, finding herself #38. There was some great stuff there - made me feel better. Read it and let me know what you think.
I so appreciate your listening and empathy. I find it hard to meet people who understand my sadness over my divorce. I think it's hard to really get it until it happens to you. Most of my friends are married and they listen - one of them has been so supportive and listens endlessly (she's a godsend) but it's hard for them to relate completely.
Can you let me know about your story - I would love to be able to give you support as well...
I think it hard not to hate being alone when it seems that most people are by my age (I just turned 40!!) are in a relationship - married - building a life together. And I really thought I did all the right things. And now I find myself starting all over again which is so much more difficult for a woman to do...