How are you able to have two places to live when the financial situation is so dire? I may has missed something in your posts...
We can't afford it. H insisted on renting a 2 bedroom apartment and I'm sure it's because he was advised to do that for custody reasons.
If this is the case then I personally would continue to not work and keep a financial detailed history. He wants to afford this D so badly- let him work two jobs. He wants an apartment so badly let him deal with the finances. If you suddenly start to work it will make getting a D easier for him. Can the courts force you to work eventually?
Can you file a separation to protect what money is left? I seem to read a lot of MLCer's going right though the money to bankruptcy. I mean you have to look out for your kids. They are what's most important of course.
How much documentation can you get about your son's disability. I know I have quarterly evals and reports from therapists. I know that one mom in the Surviving D section was eventually forced to send her 2 autistic children to school by her husbnad via the court system (she was home schooling)- Gosh was it Kat? I can't remember which person exactly it was. It seemed like basically the exH wanted her to no longer be a SAHM mom so he could pay less child support. Would your husband sink that low?
How is his family reacting to all of this? Are they supplicating him? Against it?
Sorry things are the way they are
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
