There are times we need to ask ourselves some pretty tough questions especially when there are children involved.
We have to keep our anger and frustraion in check so it doesn't affect our decision making.
I guess my point was that you shouldn't make important decisions based on the fear of losing him or because you're upset. Do what's best for you.
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I've got to think on this as lots of feelings going around... Nothing has to be done immediately anymore at any rate..
This is awesome that you realize this. Very hard to do at times but it prevents you from reacting with an emotional decision and allows you to choose a calm logical one. Good for you.