BBJ for years I let my XH run me around when it came to visitation w/ D14. Keep in mind, SG is her SF. Anyhoo...that was one of SG's biggest complaints, that we always had to work around XH's schedule.
When we got to NY, I told XH that the weekends were HIS time w/ D14, and if he had to work, it was his responsibility to take the initiative and make sure she was taken care of.
Wow. Working around H`s schedule has always been a problem because his work is on an 8-day cycle and he works days and nights. That`s one of my fears if we D -- that I`ll still have to work around H`s schedule if I truly want my children to continue to have a very involved father.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
