He also informed me that she has already filed for D from her H, and that they have been seperated for 3 weeks.
It is VERY, VERY common for a statement like this to be a LIE.
Remember, all cheaters lie -- PERIOD. As someone said above, you need to verify this independently with OWH.
Also, a big ol' "DITTO!" to what was said above about NOT revealing your cards. This is PRECISELY why I advocate that people NEVER, EVER reveal HOW they know, or even necessarily WHAT they know, other than a vague "I know all about you and ______ ." Them not knowing exactly what you know, and what you DON'T know, is a HUGE tactical advantage!
btw, his rush to get the D is most likely coming from OW, who's probably giving him an EARFUL now of "See? I LEFT MY FAMILY, AND SCREWED UP MY MARRIAGE FOR YOU . . . YOU'D BETTER HURRY UP AND TALK THAT WIFE OF YOURS INTO A DIVORCE, AND FAST, CUZ I'M NOT WAITIN' AROUND FOREVER!"
Or something very similar.
Ahhhh, trouble in Paradise. You have to find some humor -- and relief -- in it, or all of this will drive you crazy.
You have to find some humor -- and relief -- in it, or all of this will drive you crazy.
