You can't take anything HE tells you HIS lawyer said seriously... everyone in this situation does this... the BS goes to a lawyer and tries to report back as if their info is going to be believed...
Don't TALK to your H about this stuff... leave him DEAL with it.. you need to create DISTANCE...
He sounds like he might be having some doubts, YOU need to keep your distance... put HIM on the defensive...
If you keep being at his beck and call he's not going to leave the OW for you... YOU need to distance yourself to show him your boundries... as long as he's in contact with her, he can't talk to you about things.. period.
